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Question:

My sister recently broke up with her boyfriend. We don’t know why, but she still let’s him come over and shower and sleep in her bed with her. Are they “just friends” or are they in a relationship???

Advice:

Only they can decide what type of “friendship” they actually have. People don’t necessarily need titles for themselves. If they are both mutually happy in their “relationship” (whatever that may be) then that’s what matters. I would be less worried about their title, and more concerned about her happiness.